When families separate, the decisions made about children’s care and living arrangements shape their sense of stability, belonging and wellbeing for years to come. Too often, however, the child’s voice is missing from those discussions.
Child Inclusive Mediation is designed to change that. This process ensures that children’s perspectives are heard, understood and respectfully included in the development of parenting agreements. Rather than placing children in the middle of conflict, Child Inclusive Mediation gives them a safe space to express how family changes are affecting them, in a way that is age-appropriate and guided by a skilled professional.
At NLS Law, we bring over 23 years of child advocacy experience as a trained Child Inclusive Mediator. Our approach ombines compassion with practical insight, helping parents move beyond assumptions to understand what their children truly need emotionally, developmentally and psychologically.
Engaging an Independent Children’s Lawyer (ICL)
Neisha Shepherd is regularly appointed by the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia as an Independent Children’s Lawyer (ICL). An ICL is appointed by the Court in complex family law matters to independently represent the best interests of the child. The role involves gathering evidence, facilitating negotiations, and advocating in court to ensure outcomes reflect the child’s welfare and developmental needs. Neisha is highly experienced in managing complex family dynamics and sensitive issues, ensuring children’s views and best interests remain central to the legal process
Parents receive confidential, neutral feedback following a private meeting with each child. This feedback supports constructive conversations between parents during mediation, helping them reach realistic, child-focused agreements.
Every aspect of the process — from intake to post-mediation referrals — is designed to prioritise the child’s wellbeing and to empower parents to make informed, thoughtful decisions in the best interests of their family.
For families seeking clarity, empathy and a focus on what matters most — their children — Child Inclusive Mediation offers a meaningful way forward.